@DivineKestrel @bri_seven Ah, the ongoing fan discourse about the nature of Lwaxana.
I wrote a long post about how she's a narcissist, but well-meaning in her own way, a healthy stirrer of social soups and always fun for us to watch at a distance.
Half of the people chewed me out on the details of narcissism and whether her personality fits, the other half said they still can't stand her, especially in TNG.
I enjoy all her appearances in TNG and DS9, but I agree with the assessment that DS9 Lwaxana is more benevolent and less obnoxious, especially as the show progresses. She had a good arc in DS9.