It's always odd to hear people talk about sexual attraction bc as an ace person I don't experience it
Back when I was still a guy I even tried to teach myself to ogle women bc I thought I was supposed to. (This was also an autist-trying-to-emulate-NT-behavior thing.)
I eventually gave up. I don't know what seeing a sexually attractive person does for a non-asexual person & I never will. Like this whole separate band the vast majority of ppl are receiving on that goes right past me