I finally paid attention to my FetLife inbox again & have been chatting with some potential Doms.
Met two of them yesterday & it was a contrast.
Breakfast coffee: project manager, found 30 minutes in a busy schedule, friendly, focused, efficient, great focus on, um, eliciting requirements, got back to me later in the day with suggested next steps.
After-work drinks: muso, relaxed, chatty, much more of a making-friends conversation, very little kink discussion.