It's people getting paid to do the job family and friends should be doing 😏 you can get it free at an AA meeting. Some are really good at it some are gas lighters. One thing I learned from this smoking hot negress psychologist that stuck with me is her allegory of the lion tamer and the chair pertaining to my life. It was spot on. Yeah I said she was a hot negress 😏 it's very rare but it does happen