Once again my father has said he will demand all the money I "own him" "soon" or else. I'm not sure if this is another empty threat or if he means it this time
1. what is this money about?
- my father got hospitalized for a long time because he was in a coma recovering from a cancer surgery. he ended up being there for way longer due to complications. I had to drop everything, college, work, to spend 36+ hours on the hospital with him
- I ended up using money from his account to pay for our house bills and etc since I wasn't able to work. Neither was my elderly mother and we had little other choice
- he doesn't think I should have and wants the money back.
2. why don't you tell him to gtfo?
- while I don't live with him anymore. My mother, my recently divorced younger sister and her baby does and I'd like for them to not be victim of the fallout
- there is some legal measures he could take about me having accessing his funds without permission. while it would probably not hold at all he would take it to court and that would put a whole fucking lot of stress on everybody and would take a long time
- my father is a terribly greedy asshole and he will go to the ultimate consequences for it and I'd rather not drag all of my family through that.
3. why are you asking for donations?
- I just can't hold a traditional job and I can't get a hold of anything else. due to my mental conditions (autism and ADHD) I will work myself to exhaustion to the point that I'm actually bedridden and then just get fired before I'm able to realize I shouldn't do that. It happened again and again
- my mental health is in absolute smithereens. Every day I wonder how I'm able to keep going while trying not to cry myself to sleep out of despair.
4. how can you help me with that?
- donations ofc are the main way to do it but it doesn't have to be it.
- a boost helps me reach more people and that is greatly appreciated
- you can mirror this post somewhere else or create a new post with my links. I'm taking any help I can get.
## links:
- [ko-fi](https://ko-fi.com/queeroctopuss/goal?g=33)
- [stripe (USD)](https://donate.stripe.com/14k6p1bMg32QfEA6os)
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