Even so, we're happy to have this concrete example to point to, in the future, because it will help us convince people to be careful in SOME of those discussions. That has real impact. We will never know the full scope of harm this kind of work prevents, but people have real stuff on the line, often more than they themselves realize.
It's not about us being right or wrong - we try hard to detach from our ego and not indulge our feelings about being "right". It's about keeping people safe.