I was accused of bikeshedding a while back because I vocally don't like the rainbow pentagon Fediverse symbol. That's fair, I might be. This noise about the definition of Fediverse would be bikeshedding except it's not frivolous discussion, some of the discussion is being executed by people with intent to try to exclude parts because they find those parts highly distasteful. You are not going to get an honest and "real" definition out of that.