Not so much that im mistaking you, rather that im trying to extrapolate from what you said and getting some of it wrong, which is why we are talking and not yelling at each other :)
Ironically we are in complete agreement. In a healthy system wealth equality will in fact occur naturally through he other mechanisms in place. You do not want equality, but you will have less of a wealth gap in a healthy system than you would in an unhealthy system.
That said, as to the point I made many times a wealth gap is also going to exist (and needed) for such a healthy system as well.