I have and have gotten blown off several times. I'm not handsome enough or maybe it's in part that I don't go the extra mile to look like some girl's fantasy faggot to get her attention in passing like that. If you mean to find hobbies that are social, I've tried pursuing that too but it's still an extremely uphill climb. I'm pessimistic for a reason. I'm not interested in 10-guy old pussy and that's the best that seems to be available.