My advice to scholars is this: When you get a peer review report, translate it into bullet points you can act on, preferably in a hand-written list. Don't replicate the tone of the report, whether critical or complimentary. Don't be snarky or cynical. If the report addresses something you can't change, don't write it down.
It's easy to get overwhelmed with revisions because we're trying to hold too many criticisms in our head at once. Or the way we read it, braced, made it seem worse than it is