@LukeAlmighty @SuperBobo It's like this ladies... lets say everyday you had someone come up behind you and bang symbols. then walk off like nothing happened. would you defend these actions because they obviously didn't mean it to scare you? Are you being overly sensitive to a loud noise? You could just ignore it... right? You present yourself to a young male you are harassing him in a similar manner. One he can't ignore. You would not cover yourself in blood and step into a lions cage.... would you?
you are presenting yourself in a sexual manner, you will be observed as such. her actions are abusive and offensive.