@paula9 Are trans girls who you want to go after regardless? The way I meant the first post is something to the effect of that trans girls can sense reppers and will either (1) not want to be with them because of the emotional baggage or (2) view them as a project to slowly and gently coax out of repping (either that or imposing forcedfem regime by fiat). Regardless, it's your life and only you can make decisions about these things, whether you come to regret them later or not.