@Wolffkran @sickburnbro They can start with men and women both admitting they goofed and need to change. I personally know men who partied HARD in the 60s and 70s, realized their mistakes, and changed completely during the Jesus movement. There's a level of humility and acceptance that neither you nor your partner will ever be perfect, and, while we should want the best for our future selves, perfect is the enemy of good.