Yeah, to put it politely, yesterday was extremely tilting and featured numerous examples of me encountering terrifying, but normalized reaction, from places I didn't expect it; including my own immediate family. I didn't, and probably won't share most of it with you, but it was all rather too much - I did not "lose my shit" because of any one comment here on Mastodon, those were more the shit icing on the shit cake on top of a shit iceberg.