I haven't yet prioritized doing this privacy work for myself. If I do, I'll try to share it here. But I don't have the same concerns. I'm already on bluesky 😅.
I think everyone needs to do a little more work to actually find like-minded people and work on carving out the space that suits their level of comfort. But it doesn't have to be antagonistic. This is what we asked for. More control and more freedom always means more work.