female-presenting person on Mastodon: "wow the level of unwanted and unasked-for tech advice here on Mastodon is unreal and often it is super condescending, I have to keep putting disclaimers on my posts to avoid it"
male-presenting people in the replies: "well it's not like that for me here!"
also male-presenting people in the replies: "omg don't make this a gender issue, it hurts my feelings"
you have to laugh, really.