@snscaimito Hopefully the issue is temporary. The advantage of the federation pattern is that it can easily accomodate different choices. In the fullness of time it is likely it will do so. But currently the burden is on devs/admins to educate users as there is basically nobody else to do it. Open minded journalists could help out here.
The high level "selling" point of the fediverse has been that this is a "safe" space. Non-technical users are left on their own to figure out what it means.