One thing I wonder about is how constantly buckling under test, or not ever facing a personal test on the whole 'Your fams wants you dead or for you to not even be you' leads to this constant grace for familial shitbirds.
I talk a lot of smack about infinite graces for people that wipe their ass with those graces but on some level, I gotta think they just don't get that blood relations are dogshit when the blood relations want you dead and for you to no longer pump blood, and yet...if you're not in the crosshairs...all this flimflam about rehabilitating and moderating your slur dropping uncle or sig heiling grandpa still lingers? It's dopey, people need to drop it.