@pasture @MK2boogaloo @p @graf @fluffy Hell is a broken marriage that can be incited by adolescent addictive impulses.

The idea of "saving yourself for marriage" is just an axiom for "don't get addicted to sex or you won't care about relationships anymore".

For some reason the idiot Boomers never bothered to tell the preceding generations that sex is crazy addictive and fetishes are the equivalent of heroin.

Abuse that shit enough and you go full schizo.

In ye olden days they were largely ignored and would eventually gouge their own eyes out and shit!

Don't try to make "lifestyle choices" out of weird shit, don't mix sin (like lust and pride) and if you're gonna indulge in a fetish... maybe try the CHASTITY one.

It'll increase the pleasure of sex exponentially!

It's like not eating right away when you feel hungry.

It's a "safe pain", like you can inflict yourself with artificial hardships that in turn increase the pleasure by resetting your addiction tolerance.

It's why you don't ever eat food unless it requires some effort to make (unless it's fruits and veggies).

Fruits and veggies should be your only "instant access" food.

It's like designing a video game around your life. Make your life more interesting, but do it in a way that's safe and fun instead of self-destructive.