@parker @Wormwood According to many sex-ed curriculums around the country, you CAN. At least the girls can. I vividly recall rolling my eyes at the worksheets about “second virginity”, and all the pressure to make the boys take it just as seriously as real virginity.
It still does gimme a chuckle whenever I hear some brash young guy joke about no hymen, no diamon’, because you can SEE the hairs prick at the back of a roastie’s neck by the second syllable