@blacklight We don't have the balance rule in the UK, but we do have payments for exporting to the grid.
You typically get paid less to export than you pay to import. That is somewhat equivalent to your fee in Netherlands.
However, there is also time-of-use tariff which is quite popular and that even allows you to pull from the grid when it's cheap and push when the export price is good so you can make a profit just by storing electricity in your domestic system. e.g.: