I can want the bombing in Gaza to stop, while also wanting the safety of Israeli people.
I can want the Ukrainian invasion to end, while also not wanting Russian soldiers ripped away from their families to die.
I can want a proper democracy in which a crony capitalist candidate is not forced upon people, while also not wanting to be led by fascists.
All of these things are possible without even a shadow of contradiction.
The narrative that we must pick between them is the *real* con.