This holiday is fucked up in a lot of ways, but I fought hard to win back my family after spending years isolated from them. None of us are rich and we work all the time. I'm not ashamed of spending one of our few precious collective days off work together celebrating and feeding each other.
If you need family time today, I hope you get it. If you make an ethical choice to skip it, I respect you. If you are in a place where a family isn't available to you, I hope you find one.