@dave Another way this manifest is Neurotypical people want to hug after a fight as some sort of… Demonstration that there is no ill will! Meanwhile, you do not want my hands that close to your throat! Trust me! One of the things I find most frustrating about Neurotypical people is the way that everything has to happen right now! We have to talk about our feelings right now. They don't understand that I don't know and I need time to process.