You're a trans woman discovering the fediverse.
You choose an instance led by cis women, the atmosphere is good, you even make some new friends but you're missing something, you're following only three trans people so you ask where they are, apparently trans people are being harassed every now and then. You're sad but you're still here. But in the end, you're a trans woman reading about cis women experience. They're women, but not trans women.
This is what it feels to be black on the fediverse