@Humpleupagus Lavender. My wife reminds me how the feminine smell SHOULD pervade through candles, deoderizers by aerosol, and some weird wooden sticks and wicks and vases with water in the vessels to disperse. I have NEVER in our adult/married life pushed her on why SMELL for humans matters so damned much (after 33 years) since we scarce approach dogs much less cats on that sense in perception. Want a scorcher? She always jokes, "Boys (blah blah blah) or "Girls are more (blah blah blah)."