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It's become clear that some people in my family feel that others aren't doing enough to contribute to the big family events.

Some are doing more than their fair share of hosting, cooking, gifting, etc.

As someone with multiple illnesses and permanent fatigue, I gave up long ago on trying to do as much as others. It's been a source of anxiety & discomfort for me.

I wanted everyone to cut way back on this stuff. I don't think I fully understood why it made me uncomfortable.