I'm going to go to incube8or today. I'll get a they/them pin and an invisible disability pin. I'll wear them on Xmas day with family.
Maybe it will make some discussions easier. Maybe it will irritate some people.
I need to let go of the desire to explain myself to my family so well that they truly understand how I feel about Xmas, and other events with heavy expectations about how everyone *should* behave.
Still, it bothers me.