They got quiet at first. Then they remembered that I had invited this boy to my birthday party next week. "Do you think you want someone who bullies you at your birthdaty party?" my dad asked. I had to think about this for a bit -- of course I hadn't invited the two main bullies, so he'd be OK at the party, but what did it say about our friendship if he would play with me in one context and try to bully me in another? "You should un-invite him," my dad said. 3/