Present mood: amused by the little blonde girl on TikTok who opines with some merit that if your lady won't do #anal "because it will hurt too much" but she has #tattoos, she's just playing you -- doesn't wanna let YOU specifically up in her aft business AND doesn't wanna be straight with you about it.
Everyone is entitled to have limits and boundaries without owing explanations to anyone. But if she offers you a reason that's patently bogus? Possible red flag...