@charliebrownau @DK_Dharmaraj My recommendations from a self hosting perspective:
BTCPay (configured to accept Monero) as an alternative to Patreon or Subscribestar.
Your own website for a list of wallet addresses and ways to donate physical gold (silver is kind of worthless here, so I wouldn't really count on that).
PeerTube as an alternative to JewTube and every other video hosting and streaming platform.
Shadowchat instead of superchat,

I hate the woke politics of the PeerTube devs, and the PeerTube devs hate me (they even niggerlisted me, no joke!), but you just install their soyware on your own server, and you don't have to deal with them at all, and likewise they can just go ahead and niggerlist me even further, so I don't mind that.