@mia Also, tbh, I find it a bit alarming when adults are talking to minors AT ALL and especially privately. "Minors DNI" is not an excuse - I think *all* adults should block known or suspected minors by default.
Also, even with the minor issues aside, I will say that engaging in sexual content/matters online is a huge compromise vector and danger for *many* reasons. And I say this as someone who used to write (adults with adults, for adults) smutfic...