@renegadejade 11 years since coming out, and what I've learned is that even most other trans people will never "accept" me as anything but a cross-dressing opposite-sex-attracted male who likes to be called some meaningless words as an idle courtesy that changes nothing consequential.
11 years of trans discourse has merely redefined everything I ever longed for about being a girl to be "AFAB" things that I still can never have and still am bad and wrong and hurting girls by coveting it. — Rhea