The last month or so has been rough on my desire to remain part of the Fediverse. I've seen so much collective punishment meted out due to poor moderation decisions, mostly boiling down to small misunderstandings that have lead to "You are not moderating your server the exact same way that I would moderate your server, therefore I am going to suspend you and sever the social graph". It's a bad look, and it has left an awful taste in my mouth.