Btw if you don’t mind akkoma and want an good actually-safe server for trans women and gender-adjacent (and also plural/autistic/all that good shit) you should consider translunar. Never seen any bad behavior from them since it started (just saw people i don’t vibe with but that’s not bad behavior).
I hear it’s also technically the fan-club of Fedi Homestuck so whenever they say something weird i assume it’s some sort of reference.