Honestly, the trans community on "alt-Fedi" is probably the coolest group out there, outside of their incessant posting about gender. I mean this insofar as "alt-Fedi" goes, you seem to either be walking a razor's edge between outright edgelord spergs and overly-sensitive liberals. The trans community seems to just be chill and "I'm just trying to grill [and warn people not to microwave gender fluid]". They're fun, they're laid back, they can shitpost, they're not overly-sensitive and performatively offended by everything, and they're also not needlessly offensive e-racists. Very comfy group of folks who I'm happy to associate with.