The people who bother me most aren't transphobic demagogues, strange as it sounds.
No, it's the "reasonable" ones who want to "have a discussion" whenever anti-trans hate is pushed a bit further.
#Trans women in sports? They're there with "legitimate concerns"
Banning trans people from public spaces? They want to debate safety
Denying trans people exist? They just care about biology
The "reasonable" ones don't hate, you see. They just want to talk... giving genocide the veneer of civility.