I've thought about this, and amplified others better able to speak about it than me the past few days which I think made my position clear but I now have a take.
Remember a while ago? When that harry potter game came out and a lot of trans people were like "please don't buy this game" and a bunch of people who claimed to be trans allies were like "I support trans people but not when it means I can't play a game" and "give me a thesis on how playing this supports transphobia"