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Until an hour ago I could have said something like "Rape is not sex, just like a beating is not dancing."

But now I've read what #AngelaChen has to say about it in #Ace.
"Rape is not sex" implies that sex is not violent or wrong, but it can be both.
Rape and sex are a spectrum.

No means no, but yes can mean any number of things:
* oh my god, yes please!
* yes, because it's you asking
* okay, let's get this over with, so you will shut up about it
or even:
* yes, because I'm afraid to say no.

#sex #rape #consent #asexuality #sexuality