@AnarchoNinaWrites The good ally thing: How hard is it for white, straight dudes to TRY and BE good allies while acknowledging we fail often enough WITHOUT calling yourself a 'good ally'.
I am a dude. I will try to be better today than I was yesterday. It's as easy as that. Don't call yourself anything.
Good ally, good grief. If you have to call yourself that, you probably already failed....