Ok y'all, a few things:
(1) That article is from freaking 2017. There is zero point in critiquing it now. All you're going to do is get muted.
(2) If I knew it was going to go viral multiple times, and be read by an audience other than Asian American kids, I would have written it very differently. Please keep in mind that it was written FOR Asian American children of immigrants before anyone else.