@sashag Gosh do I feel this so hard. No matter how hard I discuss the experience of entering puberty and suddenly watching the boys turn into...some kind of aggressive alien species...and hearing their advice to me on how I should behave sounding somewhere between confusing and morally wrong...and to feel lowkey at threat all the time, and to see the girls I *used* to kinda get along with suddenly find acceptable and desirable behavior...I just don't know what to say about it.