I agree wholeheartedly that we're in very murky territory. It will likely be years before the scholarly community reaches consensus on the use of AI.
I think a start in that direction, though, is to acknowledge that these questions didn't have sharply defined answers even before AI entered the fray, or at least not as sharply defined as we like to pretend. We should also check our instincts with history. New technologies have always met with fierce resistance.