I never thought about money before you took it up now. I don't understand why I can't describe the house my grandmother left. Am I supposed to feel miserable all the time? Janteloven is stupid. Surely you can describe where you live with happiness? Especially if haven't had same opportunities as child and it's all due to your grandfather building home for his children and what they left for them. It's not bragging describing your house in a grateful manner. Are you Scandinavian maybe by chance?