@melissabeartrix omg I can relate to this. I'm a fem non-binary AMAB, but somehow I won the genetic lottery (sarcasm), and developed boobs really early in life. It was so embarrassing to have that happen as a kid. Never went swimming, never took gym class, got made fun of all the time. It was hell.
Now I understand how my body informed my gender and sexuality, and I love what i have now.
But not while bra shopping. That is always misery.