@VPS_Reports This illustrates why respectability politics is bullshit. It doesn't matter if you're one of the "good, normal" gays. They will eventually come for you too. That's why you don't win by becoming normal--you win by making it okay to be weird.
Freaks--queers, kinksters, anyone who deviates from social norms--have to stick together. It's all of us or none of us.