the thing i don't get is how they go you can call me "she/they" you mean when we refer to you and other people as "they are troons" or use it wrong in a singular context to avoid offending you by calling you "he" like you really are. I really don't get it. i guess you can call me they, or he, or she, idk it doesn't affect me. I don't live on other people's validation, unlike this person