@SleepyCatten worth noting that realising you're trans/gender diverse doesn't mean you have to change your personality, appearance, hobbies/interests or even name/pronouns - gender identity =/= gender expression. Also, coming out and socially/medically transitioning is about finally expressing yourself more authentically, rather than forcing yourself to conform to traditional gender roles for societal approval (both in the closet AND when coming out and transitioning).