@professionalbigot69 thats the problem. you are putting too much faith into people. if you go into every exchange with anyone with the expectation they will come out with little to no opinion or impression of you, you will have a much easier time talking to them. no woman is worth getting worked up over except for your mother and your wife. everyone between those two people are just filler including the women you may be interested in.

tldr: stop holding pussy on a pedestal