I like Scott Adams, but this is scapegoating.
Women may abuse nerds, but you know what really abuses nerds?
LIFE.
If you are a nerd, you have forsaken the social life for the pursuit of knowledge or ability.
Your reward is in getting stuff to work.
You marry a nerd girl (this is good advice generally). You socialize with nerds.
You are a nerd.
Nothing wrong with it, but you are not being oppressed by evil skanks.